A strong relationship is brought up by affection. When I say affection, its different from desires. Love by desire is where partners begin to check whether he/she has money, back and front? Those are desires. Affection is when you discover something you like that is not part of you and you have to find it in your partner. This is what brings up a strong union leading to a relationship where we can begin to make mention of understanding, patience and the rest in other to keep the relationship
You are on point bro, but this desires you talked about matters because before being in a relationship you actually know what you want in that relationship before going for the woman of your dreams, so let’s say this dreams also is a Desire because everyman has their own desires and know what they want.